Becoming Ginger Rogers Book

Multiple bestselling author Melissa Ambrosini (Mastering Your Mean Girl, Open Wide, PurposeFULL) and host of the #1 podcast The Melissa Ambrosini Show puts the condition of Comparisonitis under the microscope, unpacking the symptoms, and offering practical tips you can start using immediately to break the cycle of comparison, free up mental bandwidth, and live life on your own terms.

It creeps up on you without warning—perhaps while chatting with a friend, scrolling through social media, or even just while walking down the street.

All it takes is the hint of someone doing or having something you perceive as “better” than you, and it hits. A feeling takes over—intense, blinding, gutting. Your brain starts spinning with toxic thoughts about yourself (or others), and you’re left feeling ashamed, guilty, and even worthless.

It’s called comparisonitis. And if you’ve suffered from it, you’re NOT alone.


Melissa Ambrosini

Comparisonitis is a contagious, socially transmitted condition that occurs when you compare yourself to others so frequently and fiercely that you’re left paralyzed, with your confidence in tatters and your self-worth plummeting. It may sound trivial, but this affliction can have serious adverse effects on our mental health, leading to depression, anxiety, overthinking, and regret.

To make matters worse, our comparison culture is only expanding. Thanks to social media, we have more opportunities to compare ourselves than ever before, and even kids are falling into the trap.

Described as a “self-help guru” by Elle magazine, Melissa has experienced the effects of comparisonitis first hand, having worked extensively in industries like acting, modeling and dancing where comparison culture is not only rampant but openly encouraged.

Melissa knows all too well how comparisonitis is infecting our minds and hurting our hearts, and in this book, she’ll help you heal from this disease, liberate your headspace, and raise your self-worth so radically that you’ll never let comparison rob you of your joy and happiness again.

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    About the author

    Melissa Ambrosini is the bestselling author of Mastering Your Mean Girl, Open Wide and PurposeFULL, the host of the top-rated podcast The Melissa Ambrosini Show, a keynote speaker, and entrepreneur.

    Her mission is to inspire others to unlock their full potential and live their dream life. With a deep commitment to empowering others to become the best version of themselves, Melissa believes that transformation is possible for everyone. She strives to inspire others to reclaim their power, step into their truth, live with intention, and move in the direction of their dreams.

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    Current box subscribers are invited to join our private Facebook group. Together we will read the chapters and discuss the challenges of  Comparisonitis in ballroom dancing. We will work through the Study guide together. 

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    Summer Success Tools 2022

    Personal Fan by Trend Tech It’s hot in the ballroom and you need to cool down. Place around your neck or rest it on the table. Three Speeds to choose from and a light. Charger cord included. 
    Retail Value – $20.00

    Comparisonitis by Melissa Ambrosini  An upbeat, inspirational guide to finding happiness in an often toxic social media world. Stop comparing yourself to others and be genuinely happy. Don’t forget to join the discussion group on Facebook*
    Retail Value – $16.00

    Travel Razor with Blades by All Girls Shave Club Beautiful rose gold metal handle, 4-pack of 6-blade razor cartidges, saftey cover and bag for travel. Perfect for keeping those legs smooth for dancing!
    Retail Value – $25.00

    Whipped Shave Butter by All Girls Shave Club  Pink Champagne scent is a crisp, refreshing aroma of sparkling white wine with nuances of pomegranate and green apple, with hints of rose and geranium. Enhance your shave and enjoy soft smooth legs. Retail Value – $12.00

    Compact Mirror with Light  4.25” folding mirror with two sides and lights. Great for make-up touchups. Battery included Retail Value – $10.00 

    Shower Steamer infused with lavender essential oils. Wash away the stress of the ballroom by placing the steamer in the bathtub during an evening shower.  Retail Value – $4.00

    Hydration Electrolyte Powder by Ultima Electrolytes without the sugar. Super delicious and supports optimal hydration with electrolytes, trace minerals, vitamin C and zinc. Dissolve 1 powder hydration drink mix in 16 fl oz. of water. Retail Value – $6.00

    Lavender Sachet – Dried Lavender in just the right size bag for your shoe bag or under your pillow to help you refresh. Retail Value – $3.00


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